Over the past couple of weeks I have really thought about why it is so hard to make friends in a city as big as London. I know a lot of people but there are very, very few that I would actually call my friends. I really do feel that I need to have friends [...]

This is what I have been questioning for a long time. I know that it’s giving in to a stereotype by saying that all Gay men are promiscuous. I also know that there are loyal, faithful Gays just like there are slutty straight guys and girls. But it seems as though Gays are a lot [...]

One of the problems of having more than one job is the fact that you also have more than one boss and it just makes things even more complicated when when of those is useless at his job! Last week was a really tough week for me work-wise cos one of my bosses is a [...]

Wow, that’s all I have to say after looking at this pic. I mean, I know it’s kinda harsh/bitchy to judge cos after all she is a human being (I think!) But I really hate it when some Gays go on about being alone and not finding love and all this when I seriously believe [...]

I have mixed feelings about growing old. Part of me wants to believe that I will be forever young and I will always look how I do now. The other part of me knows that no matter what I do and no matter how much I “take care” of myself there is no denying that: [...]

For most of us , love is something that we search for with all our might and most spend all great deal of  time wanting to meet our “other half.” Everyone tells you that there is someone out there for you and that all you have to do is just wait, work on yourself and [...]

I have always rolled my eyes when couples say that they are each other’s  best friends. I find that this is more often than not, an impossible thing to do. When you have a best friend you pretty much tell them everything and UNCENSORED. You bitch about work, life, and of course you might even [...]

I would like to believe that there are people that you get along with more than others and they might make great friends and maybe great lovers. I have met plenty of guys that have ticked a lot of the boxes but for some reason or another it just didn’t work out, that leads me [...]

Maybe you have a boyfriend, maybe you have a fuck buddy, or a guy you have had your eye on for quite a while or you might not even be looking for a relationship, whatever your feeling may be relationships are part of our lives. Now, if you have just started dating a guy or [...]

I have been writing down my thoughts & feelings on some sort of journal (whether they be blogs or diaries) for almost all my life. I can remember starting to write my feelings down around the time I was coming to grips with my sexuality, so for me that was around 10 years old. I [...]

I have had my share of sexual escapades. Some of them have been orgasmic and some of them have left me wondering: What the fuck was that? Having one night stands can be exciting, kinky and erotic or they can be awkward, messy and downright sticky. But what about when you have a partner and [...]

It’s not very common to see Gays being all lovey-dovey in the streets of any city. I have been surprised sometimes at the display of affection some Gays show in the “Gay areas”  of London but in general it’s not something you see everyday. More and more now we see same sex couples holding hands [...]

Whomever did that to my front door has some serious explaining to do!!! We probably use the word “slut”to describe someone more often that we would like to recognize or even remember. I think it’s cool to have an opinion about things and people but what I can’t stand is when people use this against [...]